Sex is the supreme pleasure in the world, and we have not tasted something better than that. People crave sex and are ready to spend their time and money to unlock their closet of kinky fantasies with someone that will help them to achieve higher realms of sexual pleasure. Sex and pleasure are basic human activities, and there’s nothing wrong if you want to try them in different positions and variations. 

Talking about kink or raw sex, then BDSM is a common keyword that you will find trending on a search engine, and the internet is flooded with it. 

If you’ve missed taking BDSM training from your friends or partner, then you’ve landed in the right direction. This blog post is all about BDSM education and why you should know about it.

If you don’t know about it, then it shows that our sex education is looping around on an old-school outdated version that considers BDSM as a TABOO, and avoids talking about it. Our sex education system needs a serious overhaul and that is the reason why we are bringing light on this topic. The main highlight of this blog is to normalize BDSM in society. So let’s get started with the definition. 

What is BDSM? 

BDSM is often seen as one sexual act that is done by couples. But BDSM is a spectrum of sexual practices that involve Bondage, Dominance, Submission, and masochism (BDSM). Although people often consider BDSM as Kinky or raw sex, in some cases it’s all about sensations and doesn’t have to involve sex every time.  

Let’s Normalize BDSM

BDSM is not something that needs to hide behind walls. Also, it’s not a newly-emerging sex culture, BDSM has a long penetrated history with time. Don’t believe me? Here are some ancient facts that will free you from your guilt of practicing BDSM things with your partner. 

• The ancient Greece arts and texts have shown the act of giving physical pain that is being used to trigger erotic sensations, as per the book “An illustrated history of the Rod” by William M. Cooper (published in 1868). 
• Other parts of the Kama Sutra, the first ancient book on sexuality written in Sanskrit in India about 2,000 years ago has discussed briefly BDSM and other best position you can try to feel more pleasure and sensations while having sex. 
• In 1953, a study by the Kinsey institute found that more than 55 percent of women and 50 percent of men get turned on by being bitten. 

Hence proved that there’s nothing to feeling shy or getting embarrassed about discussing BDSM with your partner. Sex is a vast ocean and our sex education isn’t just limited to how to use condoms and make babies. While we all know that modern sex education has only cut through the upper layers of it, there’s a whole lot that is still in the dark and not discussed. 

Internet Sex Education Is Dangerous 

Our sex education needs to talk about how teachers and parents should talk about sex with children hitting puberty. Puberty makes children curious about sex, and if you as a teacher or parent steer clear of your way from talking about sex and BDSM, then the internet is their best friend. 

Indeed, the internet didn’t create pornography and erotic videos, but it’s no secret it’s one more easy way to navigate adult videos than ever before. Teenagers these days, especially between the age of 13 to 18 spend most of their time hovering over erotic sites and watching porn in school bathrooms. 

Internet sex education is more about dominance, forceful sex, and unrealistic pleasure which triggers bizarre sexual behaviors toward the partners.  

Porn can make you a pervert. Teenagers engage in a porn video where a girl just loves having anal sex in every way. BDSM is all about enhancing and developing a healthy loving relationship with your partner. But in the porn industry, it is often portrayed as dominant and objectifying women as sex toys. Remember, it is a form of abuse. 

Abusive BDSM and a Lesson of Consent 

Here we’ve inserted an infographic that will help you spot the thin line between healthy BDSM and abusive BDSM, please have a look- 

So what do we conclude here? Teach your students/ children a lesson on consent. Consent is paramount, even if you want to kiss your partner. Consent is the key element of healthy sex. And that’s what you need to teach your students or children during BDSM training. Forceful sex is a primary driver of rape culture. So, kink education, and BDSM anal training are important lessons to keep in the spotlight.

Teenagers Need BDSM Sex ed? 

Talking about BDSM with students can help in preventing rape on school and college campuses. The porn industry has tagged short clothes as a green flag that she’s ready and asking for it. BDSM training will debunk such bizarre myths and help people understand the real meaning of consent and what’s not. BDSM acts mainly involve role plays (dominant and submissive). Hence for healthy play, a lesson about submissive training BDSM acts is important that is more about why constant communication is paramount at every stage of sex and pleasure. 

Closing Thoughts 

BDSM training about a lesson on consent in sex and kinky foreplay will be a helping hand in ending rape culture. If you’re a teacher and want to be an icebreaker on such topics with your kids, then don’t worry, we are here to help you. Just leave your comment below or email us! 

We hope that you have gained some relevant insights about training BDSM and how it can be a ticket to ending rape culture. Now it’s time to normalize BDSM and educate our kids about it without feeling shy or embarrassed. Will see you soon with another amazing topic! Don’t forget to give thumbs and of course, show some love!