Kink Q&A: Is It Okay to Have a Ballbusting Fetish?

Kink Q&A: Is It Okay to Have a Ballbusting Fetish?

As much as we try to open up the discourse on sex and fetishes, there will still be a chunk of fetishes or aspects that go undiscussed and remain unsung. This does not mean that such fetishes or kinks do not exist at all, but it does counterproductively leave us with such an impression due to lack of representation or stigmatization of such kinks.

Recently, we came across the Ballbusting fetish in men and women. As soon as you hear it, you have a plethora of questions that pop up in your mind to which there are not enough appropriate answers on the web. This is the very thing that needs to be rectified in order to make everyone from Vanilla people to Cock and Ball torture people feel included in the sex community. 

Let us look at the basics of the Ballbusting Fetish and how to go about it, if you recently came to the realization! Before we start, you need to know that you’re not alone. It is way too common sexual fetish for many, so don’t stay hushed and lowkey about it. 

What is a Ballbusting Fetish?

By definition, Ballbusting Fetish is a form of Cock and Ball Torture under the Sadomasochism of BDSM. It is of interest to people who seek pleasure in getting their balls tortured by a Femmedom as well as the people who enjoy inflicting this pain.

What is a Ballbusting Fetish?

For the men who volunteer for Ballbusting fetish, mostly do not find pleasure in the pain. So, a great chunk of this lot cannot be listed under the Masochist category. Instead, it is the idea of being dominated by a woman and directly attacking their manhood, that intrigues these participants. The pain caused through the process is equally loathed by all of them after they are done, but they are left asking for more once the pain settles. 

Do Women Like Ballbusting Fetish?

There is nothing weird about a Ballbusting fetish. It is mostly related to personal childhood experiences. But a general interest in the Cock and Ball Torture can also build over time. Interestingly, it is increasingly popular among the BDSM Community. Even people who are not into BDSM essentially are into Ballbusting fetish.

For those asking do girls like ballbusting, it is safe to say that they do. Of course, kinks and fetishes are very subjective to individual choices. There will be men and women who wouldn’t understand or relate with the concept of ballbusting fetish, but for those who do, it is a great pleasurable experience. 

So, if you realize that you are into the ballbusting fetish, irrespective of your gender, you should first communicate with your partner if you are in a relationship. If not, you can go out and explore among the community to find people who have same interests so that you can meet up for some cock and ball torture with kinky gear and strangulation.  

Is Ballbusting Safe?

Another burning question that arises among the Cock and ball torture enthusiasts- Is Ballbusting safe? It is a natural concern for most people as penis and balls are one of the most sensitive areas. And a simple kick in the nuts can shake the manhood of the manliest man, let alone indulging in full fledged Cock and Ball torture sexually. But, the penis and the balls are simple sacks of tissue with no bones. The ‘boner’ that we mention often, occurs by heavy blood flow in the penal blood vessels. Hence, the cock and balls are exceptionally flexible and can endure a lot of pain even if it might not seem so. 

Is Ballbusting Safe?

That being said, there are boundaries that are maintained and physical measures that one should take to minimize the risk in Ballbusting fetish. The major concern is to ensure regular blood circulation in the area and not strangle or kick it too hard. There is a right way to do it. You must always use the upper part of your foot between your ankle and the toes to kick the balls of your man. This not only is the safest position for men but also protects the women’s toes.

Apart from that, you should always be cautious that you do not use your heels and boots to kick the balls while indulging in ballbusting fetish, as it may cause irreparable damage. Avoid using Cock and Ball torture gear for more than 20-30 minutes to regulate the blood flow towards the penis and the sack. One good way to keep a check of risks is to communicate with the Sub constantly while you’re going all out slapping or tugging at their testicles. Acknowledge any boundaries of pain and use safe words to indicate discomfort. 

Don’t forget the Aftercare

Then comes the Aftercare of Ballbusting fetish. It is one of the basic fundamentals of BDSM kink play to level the pain and bring it back to normal. The men should be able to identify their physical limits to endure pain and not go too wild in the name of sexual fetishes to cause damages to their manhood.

As part of the aftercare, you can apply an icepack on the area for about 20-30 minutes. Check for any bruises or blood and properly clean it with a disinfectant and dress it if there is a need. You should also try maintaining a gap between two consecutive ballbusting fetish sessions to give your tool enough time to heal from the last adventure.

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Lastly, it is safe to say that women can be all in for a ballbusting fetish if communicated the right way. In fact, your woman might be the one with the fetish and she is not able to talk to you. So, blurt it all out and see where the conversation goes.

Of course, consent is elementary to stepping foot in the world of ballbusting fetish. Respect such boundaries, discuss all of it beforehand and tug on your partner’s balls hard enough to make them remember this ballbusting session for the rest of their lives!

Lewis Joshua

Lewis Joshua is an author, sex educator, and BDSM expert. He has been working in the industry for over 10 years, helping people to understand the nuances of sexual exploration and empowerment. Lewis has written several books on the topic of sex toys and BDSM, which have become highly regarded in the industry due to their comprehensive content and insightful look into these complex topics. His work has been featured in numerous publications. As a public speaker, he regularly conducts workshops on issues related to sexual health and education. He is passionate about spreading knowledge on how to use sex toys safely while still having fun with them. His mission is to create safe spaces for everyone to explore their sexuality comfortably and confidently.

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