Have you ever wanted to try BDSM but weren’t sure how to get started? If your answer is yes, then this entire blog is for you! Here, we will show you how to tie your partner up in a way that is both fun and safe.  We will be using a chair as our point of attachment, and the result will have the woman kneeling on chair with her arms behind her back and her legs spread apart. We will also try to tell you about the basic starting necessities before embarking on kneeling bondage play. I hope you take the information required for you and use it in kneeling woman BDSM sessions.  

So, let’s get started!

Safety Sanity Consent (SSC)

Before the submissive kneeling, be it a kneeling woman or man, a few things need to be noted. First, you need to make sure that both you and your partner are on the same page about what you want to do. You might have a lifelong fantasy of kneeling bondage play. That doesn’t matter! Not without consent! It’s important to discuss your expectations, boundaries, and safe words before getting started. 

This will help ensure that everyone is comfortable and safe during the experience. The conversation is the essential ingredient for every form of BDSM play. The position play of a woman kneeling falls under the same jurisprudence. 

A kneeling woman might be almost considered the most vanilla form of BDSM. As in almost a starting position before the plays become intriguing. But kneeling bondage play still involves the element of bondage. I was surprised to hear from psychologists about the sheer number of people affected. Women kneeling, for the person under bondage, might trigger anxiety or panic attacks. The more common subdrop as we know it. 

After sessions of kneeling bondage play, the submissive usually experiences a misplacement of endorphins. Cuddle with your partner thereafter, and get the tone down. BDSM sessions involving a woman kneeling might be the fulfillment of your desire, but so is the responsibility once the session ends. 

How To Start Sessions Of Bondage Woman Kneeling

For first-timers, I always say, a good play to start is your and your partner’s favorite sex positions on sex chairs. Start on familiar territory. Get the rope in like you do in rope play and follow the golden rule of two fingers while tying. A kneeling woman will find it much easier during the course with that space. The movements usually make the rope tighter. The woman kneeling will also be relatively safe from BDSM bruises and cuts resulting from tight ropes.

To talk about ropes, cotton is usually the supreme for beginners. Easy to wash and clean after sessions. The constituent of the rope makes it not too demanding for the woman kneeling. Others include bondage tape. Bondage tapes are very similar looking to duct tape ease play while keeping in the comfort of the woman kneeling.

The woman kneeling will be tied so should be their preference. So, you need to gather the supplies you’ll need. For this tutorial, you’ll need rope, scissors, and a chair. You can find all of these things at your local hardware store. Once you have everything you need, it’s time to get started! But remember to buy the ones that look sexy. While you are about to start kneeling bondage play and your woman kneeling at the sight of a worn-out rope, that is a huge turn-off.  Choose the ropes with colors, and use sex toys that aren’t entirely intimidating. Use things that work for you and your desires of kneeling bondage play.

Tying Your Partner Up

Let’s just do a summary of all that you need for positions involving a woman kneeling.

1. Start by having your partner sit in the chair with their hands behind their back. If they are wearing long sleeves, roll them up so that their wrists are exposed. If your partner is new, allow time. A person doing the act of kneeling probably will deal with personal exposure to adrenaline. And the nuances of placing complete trust at first.
2. Take the rope and tie one end around one of your partner’s wrists. Make sure the knot is tight but not too tight—you should be able to fit two fingers between the rope and your partner’s skin. Don’t just simply rush. I do not try to speak from a point of vanity. The sight of your bondage partner will derive extreme pleasure for both. Important though, before skyrocketing to the position of kneeling woman follow what’s required.
3. Run the rope under the chair seat and then back up over the other wrist. Make sure the rope isn’t too tight before tying it off.
4. Take the remaining length of rope and tie it around your partner’s ankles like ankle cuffs are used, Again, make sure the knot isn’t too tight before tying it off.

The crab is the most common BDSM position I can remember as far as my head can work. I will place good money that you had a growth of interest in kneeling bondage play, after knowing about it. Crab as the name suggests requires a woman kneeling with both the knees and the hands along with elbows and wrists tied.

I consider the crab as one of the great inventions of BDSM. A personal favorite kneeling bondage plays great for the power play.

Submissive or the kneeling woman has to give into the entire submission while participating in this play. That’s what makes the position so popular.

Tease is the Basic Instinct of Kneeling Bondage Sessions

Now that your partner is tied up, it’s time to have some fun! Here are some ideas to help you: 

– Use a feather or other soft object like french tickler to tickle your partner’s skin. Imagine your partner, tied up in the position of the woman kneeling and you tease. She will drive a frenzy.  

– Blow on their skin for a sensual experience. She will probably try to free herself from the kneeling woman position, but she doesn’t want to. Does she?  

– Use ice cubes or warm wax for temperature play. Great for kneeling bondage play if you’re into this. All you need is a freezer.  

– Tease them with whatever gets them going! Yes, this. And yes do keep some bondage safety in mind while teasing your partner.

The possibilities are endless—use your imagination and have fun! Just make sure to check in with your partner regularly to ensure that they’re still enjoying themselves and comfortable with what’s going on. And don’t forget to use those safe words if things start getting too intense! Kneeling bondage play is fun when there is consent involved and agreed upon. 

Conclusion

The sight of a bondage woman kneeling on a chair or tying someone up can be a lot of fun when played along correctly and willingly. In this blog, you learned how to tie your partner up and the requirements of kneeling bondage sessions. We also gave you some tips on what activities to do once they’re tied up. So what are you waiting for? Get out there and have some fun!