As an active part of the BDSM community, you must be aware of certain thumb rules and the basis of such relationships. For instance, most BDSM relationships have a strong power dynamic prevailing by default, which directs the giving and receiving of BDSM activities. There is the in-charge Dominant partner and the slave Submissive partner. While the broader way to understand it is that the Dominant can do anything they like with the Nude Submissive, it is certainly not the best way to put it. At a closer look, there is a lot of control that the Submissive partner does, especially before the BDSM Play. So, the Dominant partner is responsible to give the ‘powerless’ Nude Submissive a good time in bed.

Don’t worry if you’re a Dom, as we are going to be discussing the best possible ways to amp up your BDSM Play with Submissive nude women or men.

Basics of Nude Submissive Dominant Play

There are a few basic foundations of a BDSM relationship that need to be followed keeping in mind the high mental and physical stakes of the setup. The Dominant partner is held more responsible as they are supposed to be in charge of the scene. While a lot of taking control can be instinctively kinky, a few basic pointers need to be kept in mind by the Dominant even during BDSM Play.

• Consent: Playing by the rules is the most important first step to ensure the Consent of your Submissive partner, both before the BDSM Play and during it. Any violation of consent is purely the Dominant’s responsibility and is beyond the realms of a Dominant-Submissive partnership.
• Pre-Discussion of Boundaries: As a Submissive, it takes a lot to be completely vulnerable and loses control of oneself. You should be sure that there is deep trust and communication between the two of you before choosing your Dominant partner. Also, draw the boundaries, your likes, dislikes, and Hard & Soft Limits in BDSM play so that they are respected and adhered to while you’re at it.
• SafeWords: It is always safe to establish safe words or safe signals in a BDSM relationship. They can be used by the Submissive partner in case they feel any discomfort during play. Calling out of a Safeword indicates stopping all play at once. This also ensures anyone from the couple does not cross boundaries.
• Aftercare: As BDSM Play can be quite tiring for both parties, aftercare is really important. This acts as the cool-down part after an intense heated BDSM session. The Dominant can cuddle, talk, clean, etc., with the Submissive as part of tender Aftercare in order to bring them back to normalcy after a rush of overwhelming sensations.

How to Enhance Nude Submissive Play?

Finally, getting to the Kinky part, take a look at the following tips and ideas to have the best time with your Nude Submissive during BDSM Play:

Nipple Play

One of the major erogenous zones on the body are the breasts and nipples. BDSM or not, nipples are an integral part of any sexual experience. So when it comes to BDSM play with a nude submissive, you can provide intense stimulation around their nipple areas. Rub, pinch or lick however you want. You have total control over them as you are the Dominant.

Take charge and give them the time of their life by indulging in wild nipple play. What you can do to spice it up is use Nipple Clamps. You can use them to clip the nipples of the nude submissive to stimulate the nipples. You can also adjust the intensity and tightness of the clamps.

Spanking

Of course, one of the most common kinks as part of the Sadomasochistic play in BDSM is, spanking turns both partners on. In a BDSM relationship, while you are playing with a Nude Submissive, Spanking is also instrumental in exerting your authority as a Dominant partner. It reinforces the Power Dynamic of the BDSM relationship and puts the Submissive in place. There are a lot of techniques and tricks to stimulate nude submissive women by Spanking—by using Spanking bench, Spanking Paddles, whips, etc. Again, the intensity of Sexual Spanking may vary as per the negotiated boundaries.

Permission and Punishment

Another vital act in the Dominant Submissive aspect of BDSM relationships is Permission and Punishment. Most people see the whole Submissive relationship with rules and permissions set by the Dominant.

By virtue of completely offering oneself to the Dominant partner, the nude submissive have to obey whatever the Dominant partner pleases. So, there is a strong sense of constant permissions using honorifics by the Submissive and Disciplinary punishments by the dominant if the former doesn’t act accordingly. Even when they are indulging sexually, the nude submissive has to seek the permission of the Dominant partner before any sexual move and they can punish them in whatever way they deem appropriate.

Roleplay

Roleplay is considered a very effective stimulative catalyst, and there is nothing directly sexual that Roleplays are used for. But, the mere building up of imaginative scenarios within the boundaries of the Dominant-Submissive relationship can add a lot more to the whole scene. It makes each partner feel more passionately about the other. It ends up enhancing the overall experience of BDSM play with nude submissive partners. The beginner-level roleplay situations could be: Boss and secretary, Doctor and Nurse, etc.

Bondage

A lot of submissive nude women who have agreed upon the total power exchange enjoy the sense of having little active control during play. They can passively direct the Dominant partner beforehand by communicating what they like so that the Dom takes notes and works on providing them with ample pleasure. Topping from the Bottom is what this is. As part of the consensual BDSM Play, in order to lose control, the dom can tie the nude submissive partner with bed rests and bed pillars. They can do this to create a kinky bondage situation.

The physical restraints add to the Submissive’s little authority over the scene and make them submit completely. The Dominant can use them or play with them however they like as the Submissive is physically tied. This is not to say that the Submissive doesn’t enjoy any of this. Every act is based on the assumption that it has been pre-discussed and agreed upon by both parties keeping in mind that they both derive pleasure from giving and receiving it respectively.

Cupping

This kinky act in BDSM play involves heating cups to a certain temperature before applying them to the skin and other sensitive areas to induce pleasure. The warm sensation of cupping against the breasts or such sweet spots creates suction and increases the blood flow to this area. As that happens, the sensation of pleasure intensifies. It is by default a mild BDSM activity. Therefore, you can shift to other options if you are into the wilder and raunchier side of BDSM Play with your nude submissive.

Orgasm Denial

During an intense play session with a nude Submissive, you have full authority to strip them of any rights and controls within the negotiated limits. This can go on to the extent of denying them the sensation of orgasm. The Dominant partner takes the Submissive on the edge of orgasm with the typical penis in vagina sex, fingering or using a kinky sex toy. As soon as they are on the verge of climaxing, the Dominant stops and brings the rush down to normal. Once this obstructs the orgasm, the Dominant continues to do so until they feel that the Submissive can finally feel it with discretion. This also reiterates the Orgasm control of the Dominant partner over the nude Submissive.

Conclusion

We have tried to compile a comprehensive list of kinky activities you can indulge in with your Submissive women BDSM and have great fun. Keep in mind that being Dominant in a BDSM relationship does not mean not taking care of what the Submissive partner likes. It is all the more your responsibility to make sure they have a good time. They have vested all control over your shoulders, so, don’t disappoint. Listen to their preferences, likes, and boundaries and respect them throughout the scene. This is a way to ensure that while you’re both at your wildest and kinkiest, you still care for them. Be mindful of these little things and you’re good to go have fun.